This book is so great because Elle goes through so much — the basics of sex ed, types of lube and which are unsafe, types of sex toys and some of their uses, and which kinds of dildos are the best for us curvy girls. One of my favorite parts was that there were icons that shared if the positions listed were easier on the back, knees, arms, etc. Sensuality education and communication play a huge part in sexuality. Elle does an amazing job of covering these topics. In this same chapter, Elle compares caring for our sexual selves to other things we do like eating or sleeping.