I used to think squirting — also known as female ejaculation — only burst into public consciousness around the end of , when the UK government tried unsuccessfully to ban it from porn. Popular as it is, squirting remains controversial and not just among prudish government ministers. But desires are inevitably influenced by the world around us — things our friends talk about, porn we watch , stuff we read on the internet. And when it comes to trends in sex, squirting, right now, is in. As a woman who gets plenty of joy from making guys cum with volcanic force and volume, I understand why so many of my exes have been eager to repay the favour in kind. Learning to squirt takes time, patience and experimentation, as well as a genuine eagerness for it happen from both parties.