One of the most controversial, and safest forms of BDSM play is watersport. Many people cringe and shy away from it, but the fact is everyone is curious about the appeal of piss play. For starters, what is it? Put simply, watersport is an activity that should be done with a trusted and clean partner. Urine is used in many ways for many reasons, erotic pleasure, humiliation, form of showing dominance, and other reasons. Is it safe? Absolutely, as long as you take necessary safety measures prior to the play.

There is a reason why most American voters are now familiar with the term " golden shower ," but I'll get to that in a minute. If you're still in the dark: No, it's not a shower chiseled out of a brick of gold although that would be amazing. A golden shower, also called "water sports," is a sex act that involves urine. No hard and fast rules here, except that it definitely involves pee. According to Samantha Manewitz, a sex therapist with the Institute for Sexual Education and Enlightenment who specializes in working with alt-sex and kink communities, there's often "a component of dominance and submission in the act of peeing on a partner or having a partner pee on you.

However, its taboo nature did make it a popular choice for clients who came to see me as a dominatrix. But golden showers really are the tip of the yellow iceberg, so I took to the internet to find out what parts of watersports ur-ine to, and why. Halfway through shagging my girlfriend while we were both drunk, she suddenly just started pissing herself and I could feel the warm water on my dick. My Mistress will then play with me, and throughout our sessions I have to hold it in and not be allowed to go to the toilet.