Remember when Ramona Singer said that one of her friend's naked photos surfaced, and her daughter, Avery Singer , heard about them at school from one of her classmates as her whole beef with Bethenny Frankel about her past nude scene in a movie began? Well, Real Housewives of New York City fans, we now know who that friend is, and she's someone near and dear to our hearts. As you may recall, Ramona memorably walked off the set of RHONY 's Season 1 reunion as Alex discussed her photo shoot in the buff that had recently come to light, visibly upset about the revelation. She goes, 'Mom, people are showing me naked pictures of this woman that you're with on this new show it was our first season , and they're all asking me about it," Ramona recalled on WWHL. I mean, then, 10 years ago, my God, I was, like, frigid. Alex, who made her triumphant return to the Bravo Clubhouse Wednesday night, then asked Ramona if she thought that dinner in the Hamptons with the RHONY crew this season would be "the perfect time" to bring up something from Bethenny's past. It was in the press all over.

But it turns out her lawyer minds. A lot. So why the sudden change of heart about the Kubrickian pictorial? Did McCord finally realize the magnitude of her actions, namely how terrifying it is seeing a naked human being topped only with a Mardi Gras mask?

On last night's third installment of The Real Housewives of New York Reunion , host Andy Cohen asked Alex McCord how she felt about the fact that all the women this season accepted Kelly Bensimon and Bethenny Frankel posing naked -- when Alex herself received so much flak when her own nude photos surfaced on the Internet in Not surprisingly it was Jill Zarin -- not Alex -- who rudely weighed in on the issue at hand Jeez, Jill. How do you really feel? Why don't you just save us from having to read in between the lines and call her trash like we know you want to?